This Is How It Always Is: A Novel

This Is How It Always Is: A Novel

New York Times BestsellerThe Reese Witherspoon x Hello Sunshine Book Club Pick?Every once in a while, I read a book that opens my eyes in a way I never expected.? ?Reese Witherspoon (Reese?s Book Club x Hello Sunshine book pick)People Magazine?s Top 10 Books of 2017Amazon?s Best Books of 2017: Top 20Amazon?s Best Literature and Fiction of 2017Bustle?s 17 Books Every Woman Should Read From 2017PopSugar?s Our Favorite Books of the Year (So Far)Refinery29's Best Books of the Year So FarBookBrowse?s The 20 Best Books of 2017Pacific Northwest Book Awards FinalistThe Globe and Mail's Top 100 Books of 2017Longlisted for 2019 International DUBLIN Literary Award?It made me laugh, it made me cry, it made me think.? ?Liane Moriarty, #1 New York Times bestselling author of Big Little LiesThis is how a family keeps a secret?and how that secret ends up keeping them.This is how a family lives happily ever after?until happily ever after becomes complicated.This is how children change?and then change the world.This is Claude. He?s five years old, the youngest of five brothers, and loves peanut butter sandwiches. He also loves wearing a dress, and dreams of being a princess.When he grows up, Claude says, he wants to be a girl.Rosie and Penn want Claude to be whoever Claude wants to be. They?re just not sure they?re ready to share that with the world. Soon the entire family is keeping Claude?s secret. Until one day it explodes. Laurie Frankel's This Is How It Always Is is a novel about revelations, transformations, fairy tales, and family. And it?s about the ways this is how it always is: Change is always hard and miraculous and hard again, parenting is always a leap into the unknown with crossed fingers and full hearts, children grow but not always according to plan. And families with secrets don?t get to keep them forever.Review?It?s early days, but this big-hearted novel about a family with a transgender child is in the lead for the most sensitively and sincerely told story of 2017?Frankel?s portrayal of even the most openhearted parents? doubts and fears around a child?s gender identity elevates this novel.??People, ?Book of the Week??Deeply satisfying?An intimate family story?Day-to-day parenting dilemmas are where Frankel shines.??The New York Times Book Review?Brave, complicated, occasionally horrifying and frequently very funny?Frankel is a first-rate storyteller."?Seattle Times?Frankel has tackled this controversial topic in a warm, funny and honest way and one that will undoubtedly spark thought and conversation.??The Fort Worth Star-Telegram?Frankel?s writing is witty and wise, and her characters are reminiscent of those in family capers such as the film The Royal Tenenbaums or Commonwealth, Ann Patchett?s recent novel about an eclectic brood?This is a fascinating, gut-wrenching, timely and enjoyable read?and a must for your next book-club discussion.??Edge?This Is How It Always Is isn?t only a novel about the challenges of life with an atypical child. It?s a story about the challenges of parenting and love, period...This beautiful story is deeply personal, a heart-rending glimpse of an author writing her way to understanding.??BookPage?A novel of great empathy and compassion that transcends politics?This is a family that you will take into your heart and?like all friends?you will welcome the changes that they bring to your life.??The Seattle Review of Books?Sly and charming?Comes at the perfect time?This Is How It Always Is explores the travails of a modern family, where challenges about a child?s gender are the same as any other struggles of growing up.??Shelf Awareness?A bold, honest, heartbreaking story about the choices parents make, and how life goes on, but not always according to plan. This must-read novel? is the perfect pick for book clubs.??PopSugar?One of the most timely and big-hearted family stories I have read in a long time?This is a beautiful novel about the unexpected curve balls of parent