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Whether youre a trembling novice or a jaded expert, theres always something new to be discovered in the endlessly changing, complex and titillating world of kink.While there are plenty of other books out there that explain how to give a spanking or tie a halfhitch, Playing Well With Others is the first book that explains kink *culture* the munches, parties, leather bars, conferences, workshops, fetish nights, exploratoriums and all the other gatherings of kinksters that turn BDSM and leather from a bedroom predilection to a lifestyle and a community.Youll learn to: Examine your own motivations, needs, wants and desires Ease your way into established communities Understand etiquette in different adventurous sex communities Familiarize yourself with the many types of events available to you Care for your relationships as you explore new territory Negotiate for play and aftercare Go back to the world at large without ruffling feathers ...and, of course, answer the allimportant question: What do you wear?!The team of Harrington and Williams offers 30plus years of experience in diverse kink communities: top, bottom and switch; gay, bi and straight; female, male and trans; white and POC. Both former titleholders and international educators, they are an unbeatable pair of sexual sherpas with an inimitable voice and a great deal of wisdom.Playing Well With Others is an unprecedented and essential guidebook for anyone who wants to explore or understand the community aspect of the kink lifestyle.
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I bought this as a gift for my partner who’s into BDSM, and they absolutely loved it! They said it opened their eyes to a lot of new ideas and practices in the community. The illustrations are a nice touch too—really brings everything to life!
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Alexandra Li
A Must-Read for Beginners
As someone new to the kink scene, this guide has been super helpful! It covers everything from leather to BDSM in a way that's easy to digest. I particularly loved the sections on communication and consent; they really emphasize the importance of those aspects!
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Ben Thompson
Disappointed with the Depth
Honestly, I expected a bit more from this guide. It has some good info, but I was hoping for deeper insights into the leather community specifically. Also, the formatting could be better; it was hard to follow at times. Not what I was looking for.
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Jamal Rodriguez
Informative but a Bit Overwhelming
This book is packed with information about the kink and BDSM communities, which is great, but sometimes it felt like too much all at once. I found some chapters a bit dense. Still, it gave me a lot to think about and explore further, especially the different community dynamics.
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